Bring Back That Holiday Feelin'

I suddenly thought that if I erected a brand-new beautiful Christmas tree, that I would somehow feel cozy and settled. Turns out, it did not work. It failed in much the same way when it came to Easter, Independence Day, Memorial Day, and Labor Day. Holiday feelings and traditions missed the roll call this year and they appear to be absent. Am I the only person who feels the lights went out on the Christmas tree? The fireworks in July did not emit the same sparkle? The pool days of summer felt shallow? But you see, the holiday decorations and rituals are not what settle us, our attitudes do. Along with many others, I have complained about not being able to do the things I desire. Things that I took for granted. I have not had a date with my girlfriends in months. I have not spent time with many of my family members. I have not felt safe going on that weekend getaway with my husband. The things that I need to purchase from the grocery store are often unobtainable. The list of complaints is perpetual, but we cannot allow them to become permanent. I realized today, as I looked around my home, just how petty my complaints are. You see, I have the ability to purchase food from the grocery store. I get to see my husband every single day of my life. I get to take care of my mother and see my brother frequently. I can text my girlfriends at any time and we never fail to pick up right where we left off. My family has remained healthy thus far. We are alive. So why are we insistent on criticizing the situation that we are in. We are all facing this condition together as a community, yet we are acting alone. We are standing in ceaseless judgement of one another. The truth is, there is not one individual here that knows the proper way to handle this epidemic. We are doing the best that we can. By fighting one's point of view on the subject is to fight a phantom idea. The flip of the switch comes from within. The holiday lights will not provide us with a positive attitude. Our positive attitudes will light up the holidays. We have much to be thankful for this year, so pour a peppermint martini, turn up that faithful Mariah Carey Christmas album, plug in your attitude, and watch your house light up.