To the Mother That Shared the Bleachers With Me      Dear Fellow Mom,       I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.  I know that you are wondering why I am showing you such gratitude.  It would be easy to forget all of the things that we have shared without thinking much about it.  You were there when I took my daughter to her first day of Kindergarten and gave me a hug, and when we shared together one of her biggest milestones, I felt connected to you and I was able to stay strong. I, in turn, patted your little one on the head and told her that she was so smart and beautiful and she would do just fine on her first day in this new social environment.  When I went through my divorce that same year, you were there.  You didn't even know it, but you were there.  Every time I saw you at a school function or a little league soccer game, you made me feel better without even knowing what you were doing for me.  You told me that I was beautiful and you said that I was a