I suddenly thought that if I erected a brand-new beautiful Christmas tree, that I would somehow feel cozy and settled. Turns out, it did not work. It failed in much the same way when it came to Easter, Independence Day, Memorial Day, and Labor Day. Holiday feelings and traditions missed the roll call this year and they appear to be absent. Am I the only person who feels the lights went out on the Christmas tree? The fireworks in July did not emit the same sparkle? The pool days of summer felt shallow? But you see, the holiday decorations and rituals are not what settle us, our attitudes do. Along with many others, I have complained about not being able to do the things I desire. Things that I took for granted. I have not had a date with my girlfriends in months. I have not spent time with many of my family members. I have not felt safe going on that weekend getaway with my husband. The things that I need to purchase from the grocery store are often unobtainable. The list of complaints